What is this thing love that we speak of? when we say that we love someone, do we know what we are telling them?
Maybe I'm crazy but I was under the impression that love was another from of care. That when we love someone, we care about their feelings, we care what they might think and feel, and we do what we can to make sure that we don't do anything to inflict pain on those we love because love is care.
In my findings these days I have come to discover that Love is just people looking for love. They think that they can learn to find it. They think that if they are in love everything will be peachy keen and they will live happy lives/ but people aren't actually loving the way it is meant to happen.
This makes me so sad. Especially when you love someone in the first way mentioned and come to find out that they don't mean the same thing when they say it back.
The word love is something meaningful. To most people these days like you said, its just a "hey i like you, but i wanna be "in love" so i'll say "i love you". But, like you said, people just want to be "in love", they think thats what life is all about. They think if you're in a relationship with someone you have to love them.. no not true. If you're in a relationship with someone and you love them, and the other loves you back. MARRY! lol. Love is hard to find-- hard to love someone when you think like is love. But when you love someone, don't think that life will be peachy 'cause hey, thats a fairy tale! but, Love is good for the soul when you met the right person that loves you back.
ReplyDeletep.s-- I love you Desi!!
love that insight Ren! I agree completely.
ReplyDeleteMiss you mucho! :)
love you 2!!
so are you saying that i don't mean it when i say i love you? cause thats what it sounds like to me.
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